The illusion is deeply ingrained. As the BLM person is deeply asleep, the illusion to her appears even deeper. There are no "sides". Deep, covert brainwashing has taken place through every aspect of society, films, TV, social media, mums and dads, schools, colleges, professors, food, drinks, air, toothpaste, water, "right" and "wrong". If a cosmic blip comes and raises everyone's consciousness, that same person will see that their right hand was fighting their left hand. I have been raped. I am not going out and saying all men are rapists. Police lives matter, black lives matter, children's lives matter. These people are existing where the waves hit the tide line on the beach. Froth and bubbles well up from the energy of the wave action, crash in what appears to be forceful energy, but then withdraw and seep back into the general field of energy once again. All is an illusion of waves crunching beach pebbles, but really it is just froth energy in the wave field, the energy is spent, but gathers again to be spent again.